&lt;h1&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;First time bottoming?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Anal intercourse normally consists of a top and a bottom. The top is characterised as the insertive partner, whereas the bottom is defined as the receptive partner. And if you enjoy both, you are labelled versatile. While these are all prominent phrases in the LGBTQ+ community, they may refer to anyone regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Tops are often stereotyped as domineering or aggressive, while bottoms are submissive and like submitting to or being dominated by the top. However, these are myths that further add to the stigma and shame associated with anal sex, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. Whether you like being on top or bottom, these roles should not define us both inside and outside of the bedroom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;If you have symptoms or want to discuss sexual health, you can consult with doctors at the PULSE Clinic. To book an appointment, please email us at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;mailto:info.bkk@pulse-clinic.com&quot;&gt;info.bkk@pulse-clinic.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt; or contact us on your preferred platform.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to bottom?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Bottoming can refer to numerous sexual scenarios, although it is most typically used to denote the receiving role in sex between homosexual males.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Start with foreplay: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Your body must be sufficiently stimulated for enjoyable penetration (whether vaginal or anal). Arousal increases blood flow to the groin and relaxes the pelvic floor muscles. Spend time stimulating each other&#39;s bodies, whether by kissing, caressing, masturbating, or viewing pornography.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. Start slow:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Starting with penetration slowly can help your muscles stretch and relax, lowering the risk of tearing, discomfort, or pain. Start with a single finger, a little butt plug, or another toy, as well as lots of lubricant, to help open up your vaginal or anal canal. If you find your body tensing up, attempt to intentionally relax your muscles, which will aid in relaxing your opening. Take your time with delicate penetration, and only go to larger devices (such as full-sized dildos) when you&#39;re comfortable and prepared.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Go comfortable:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; Penetration can offer significant pleasure during sexual intercourse, but if you&amp;rsquo;re feeling stressed, distracted, pressured, and nervous, it can cause discomfort or even pain. Encourage open communication with your partner from the bottom of your heart. If one of you isn&amp;rsquo;t feeling ready for your further penetration, feel free to take a break.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What Are the Best First-Time Bottoming Positions?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;The greatest first-time bottoming positions after dilation and preparation. Whether this is your first time bottoming or you&#39;re an expert, there are places where the bottom plays a more dominant role in the early stages. As a result, I propose sitting on the &quot;D&quot; and maneuvering till you find the experience comfortable and enjoyable. This allows you to maintain complete control over the speed and depth until your buttocks relax to their full capacity.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://cms.pulse-clinic.com/Files/Pai/First%20time%20bottoming%203.jpg&quot; width=&quot;1200&quot; height=&quot;800&quot; style=&quot;display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot; /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;This may take one or more sessions to allow you to fully absorb everything and feel completely at ease. Once this is accomplished, you may begin experimenting with different postures while determining the optimal angles for entry and satisfaction. Your top will probably have some recommendations as well!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;When it comes to bottoming for the first time, comfort, relaxation, and control are key. Choosing positions that allow you to ease into the experience and communicate with your partner(s) can make all the difference. Here are some of the best positions for first-time bottoming:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Missionary (with Legs Raised)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it&#39;s good: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt;This classic position allows the bottom to relax while lying on their back. The top has control over the depth and speed of penetration, making it easier to go slow and adjust as needed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to do it:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Lie on your back and raise your legs slightly, placing them on your partner&amp;rsquo;s shoulders or letting them rest at your sides. You can control how high or wide you want your legs to be, which helps with comfort.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. Spoon Position&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it&#39;s good:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; The spooning position is great for first-timers because it&amp;rsquo;s more intimate and relaxed. The angle of penetration is more shallow, which can be less intense and easier to manage.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to do it:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Lie on your side with your partner behind you. You both remain lying down, which is great for slow, controlled movements. This position allows for more closeness and is easy to communicate with.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Cowboy (Bottom on Top)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it&#39;s good: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt;This position gives the bottom full control over the pace and depth of penetration. You can slow down, stop, or adjust anytime.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to do it:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Sit on top of your partner as they lie on their back. You control the movement by slowly lowering yourself down. It&amp;rsquo;s great for testing what feels good for your body at your own pace.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://cms.pulse-clinic.com/Files/Pai/First%20time%20bottoming%2011.jpg&quot; width=&quot;1200&quot; height=&quot;800&quot; style=&quot;display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. Doggy Style (Modified)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it&#39;s good:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Although this position is more intense, it can be modified by leaning forward to reduce the depth of penetration, offering control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to do it:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Start on all fours, but if you find the standard position too much, try resting on your elbows and chest, which reduces the angle of penetration.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5. Side-by-Side&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it&#39;s good:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; This position is very gentle and intimate, with less strain on the body. It also allows for easy communication.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to do it: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt;Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, with the top penetrating from behind. It&amp;rsquo;s very comfortable and easy to adjust as needed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Tips for First-Time Bottoming&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;li style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot; aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Go slow: Take your time with foreplay and make sure you&#39;re properly relaxed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot; aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Use plenty of lube. Lubrication is essential for comfort.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot; aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Communicate: Be open your heart with your partner about what feels good and what doesn&amp;rsquo;t.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot; aria-level=&quot;1&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Relax your body: Take it easy, especially your pelvic muscles, to make the experience smoother.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Taking your time, choosing a comfortable position, and ensuring open communication with your partner can help make your first bottoming experience more enjoyable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How do I choose a partner for bottoming?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Especially for the first time, is an important decision that requires trust, comfort, and good communication. Here are some key factors to consider when selecting the right partner for bottoming:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Trust and Emotional Connection&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it matters:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Bottoming is an intimate act that requires vulnerability, so it&amp;rsquo;s essential to choose a partner you trust emotionally and physically. Trust creates a safe environment where you can feel relaxed and communicate openly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to assess:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Ask yourself if this person respects your boundaries, listens to you, and needs to make you feel safe. Have they demonstrated care and consideration in other aspects of your relationship?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. Respect for boundaries&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it matters:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Your partner should be respectful of your physical and emotional boundaries, particularly as bottoming can involve new sensations and discomfort. A respectful partner will check in with you regularly and stop if you&amp;rsquo;re uncomfortable and you need to control your emotions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to assess: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt;Discuss boundaries before the experience. Are they open to listening to your needs and willing to go slow? Do they seem genuinely concerned with your comfort and well-being?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Perfect Communication Skills&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it matters:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Open communication is key to a positive bottoming experience. You&amp;rsquo;ll want a partner who can discuss what you like and dislike, check in during the act, and be open to feedback.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to assess:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; A good partner will actively engage in conversations about consent, safety, and preferences. You should feel free and comfortable talking with them about sex, pleasure, and your needs. Anyway, don&#39;t forget to use a condom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. Patience&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it matters: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt;First-time bottoming can be nerve-wracking, and it may take time to relax into the experience. A patient partner will go at your pace and give you the space you need to feel comfortable.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to assess: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt;During foreplay or other intimate moments, notice if they&amp;rsquo;re willing to take their time. Do they rush or push you into something you&#39;re not ready for?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5. Experience and Knowledge&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it matters:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; While a partner doesn&amp;rsquo;t need to be a sexual expert, it can be helpful if they have some experience with anal play or bottoming themselves. They&amp;rsquo;ll likely understand how to approach the situation with care and use the right techniques.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to assess:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Need to open a lot of conversation about their experience. Do they seem knowledgeable about bottoming, preparation (like cleaning, lubrication), and ensuring comfort?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h3&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6. Consideration for Safety&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why it matters:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Is that important? Yes, safety is crucial, both in terms of physical and emotional health. You&amp;rsquo;ll want a partner who is mindful of using protection (condoms) and sufficient lubrication and who understands hygiene practices.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to assess:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400;&quot;&gt; Discuss condom use, STI testing, and lube preferences before engaging in sex. A responsible partner will prioritize both of your health.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://cms.pulse-clinic.com/Files/Pai/First%20time%20bottoming%202.jpg&quot; width=&quot;1200&quot; height=&quot;800&quot; style=&quot;display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h2&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: #ff99cc;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Final Consideration&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;hr /&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-weight: 400; color: #99ccff;&quot;&gt;Your comfort and enjoyment should always be the priority. If you&amp;rsquo;re not entirely sure about your partner, it might be worth waiting until you find someone who makes you feel completely safe and at ease. Open conversations about consent, pleasure, and boundaries are vital before choosing to bottom with anyone.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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